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Telegraph Man Interview Haringey Mentor and Ex Pro Rugby Player, Gavin Webster

Haringey abob mentor and ex pro rugby player, Gavin Webster tells the Telegraph what it’s like to be a mentor as well as how abob support the evolution of male maturity in mentors and mentees. Webster explains that much of the charity’s work focuses on breaking down notions of masculinity for mentors and mentees alike, and helping the group work together to ask what it means to be a man. “Most of the men have a traditional story of being told that as a man you couldn’t be gay, you couldn’t be weak in a fight, you couldn’t cry. All of the things we can look back on, thankfully, now and say ‘wow, that was a heavy coat to be wearing’. Visit The Telegraph to read the full...

REINVENTING THE SELF(IE) – Campaign Against Living Miserably

Calmzine Interviews photographer, Casey Moore. Here Casey explains why he chose to focus on abob men for this photographic project for The Calm Photography Movement exhibition. Plus how he re-invented the selfie. “The concept came out of a desire to develop a photographic process that in some way gave something back to the...

Nathan Roberts in Positive News

Positive News devoted the whole of their July issue to de-coding the new masculinity and abob featured in the form of an interview with Chief Exec, Nathan Roberts. He really does emphasise the much-needed point that men need to have a space where they can express themselves emotionally, and that is what abob provides. “I don’t think there are many places in westernised societies where men are encouraged to be vulnerable, emotionally expressive. I grew up in a very tough village, where the way you gained your place in the hierarchy was by how quickly you could shame people. It was a culture of tearing each other down; physical posturing; intimidation. There are very narrow definitions of what it is to be a man. When I was growing up, it wasn’t safe for me to admit that I felt scared, sad or lonely. For me to be of use to other men, I had to transform and break through that conditioning myself.” Great photos by abob member, Casey...

Mentee, Jake Gynn tells his story to the Easbourne Herald

22 year old Jake Gynn tells the Eastbourne Herald how the Quest helped him let go of the deep sadness and guilt he’d been carrying around since he was a child. As well as how it was building a relationship with his mentor, Ronnie. “It was awkward because I wasn’t used to having this male figure in my life. But gradually we built up a relationship and humour was key.” I let go of my deep...

Abob CEO, Nathan Roberts in the Guardian on the prison crisis.

The Guardian’s ‘Comment is Free’ section invited Abob’s CEO, Nathan Roberts, to write about why the prison crisis is happening. Nathan explains: “Young men don’t mature psychologically until their mid-20s. Condemning so many to the toxic environment of our jails is a recipe for re-offending and suicide” in a very strong piece.

Inside Time Reports On Haringey abob

Inside Time is the national prison newspaper, this month’s edition reports very powerfully and positively on Haringey’s abob and their activities. Mentor, Ken Hinds, is interviewed. He says: “The young men we mentor have been in jail, they’re on probation, they’ve got serious issues. We help them to become the men they want to be.” Editor Erwin James who also wrote about abob for the Guardian, writes: “That there is a need for organisations like A Band of Brothers is beyond dispute. Men account for eight out of 10 people cautioned by the police, and nearly nine out of 10 people found guilty of indictable...
Rose Rouse

Rose Rouse is our PR. A journalist and writer as well, she is passionate about abob and the possibilities nationally for such transformational work.
She is always interested in abob success stories for case histories whether it be mentors or mentees. Please get in touch if you have one.
abob have already had pieces in the Guardian (twice), the Sunday Times, a brilliant feature on Woman’s Hour and there will be more.

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